Ephesians 5:22-33

22 For wives, this means submit to your husband as to the Lord. 23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church.  He is the savior of His body, the church. 24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything. 25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. 27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as the love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30 And we are members of his body. 31 As the scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” 32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. 33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.     

Hello world!

Welcome to my introduction. I am HisCSW sometimes I may refer to myself as CSW, when I refer to my dear husband I will call him Dear Sir, Sir, HOH, or dh. I am not using real names on here for privacy reasons. I am a disciplined wife this is about our life. I am not abused, I am very loved, cherished, and respected, he values my opinion and listens to what I have to say.  In our marriage my husband is the head of our household as we live by Gods word, we use Christian Domestic Discipline (CDD), Loving Domestic Discipline (LDD), and Domestic Discipline (DD).

This is NOT a blog about BDSM or any form of it! This is also NOT about disciplining children. If you are looking for that please leave. Also if you do Not agree with any or even part of this blog please leave without leaving comments.

Let me start off by telling you a little about us. For those of you that do not know. Dh and I started living with dd as a natural part of life back in March 2012 so this has been a trying nine months. He is getting much better with his duty as HOH and I am trying very hard to be submissive. He has struggled with being HOH, because for 11 years I took care of everything and ran the house. We were really going down hill and on the tip of divorce. I had told him that I felt like some women needed to be spanked, but he never took me seriously. I had finally reached my breaking point. I got on the computer and started looking for divorce lawyers, that is when I found a site about CDD, I am not sure how or why it popped up, but there it was. I read everything on that site and printed it off so that dh and I could read it together. From that day on it has changed our lives. I have done more research and found the taken in hand site that dh goes to for reference.  Life is much better between us and more intimate! Unless you live in or with dd you will never truly understand how it works and what the benefits of it are.

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