It’s Been A While!

Hello Everyone,

It has been a while since I last posted, so I thought that I would bring you up to date. Sir and I have been doing well, it was a long February I had a hard time getting my strength back after the flu attack. I am just now starting to feel like myself again, I am back up and making meals, cleaning, and everything else that goes along with being a loving wife.

In the past two days I have gotten myself into trouble.

Friday night I got into trouble for running a red light, we just bought those under the bed restraints and a butt plug (bp). Well he restrained me and I got a paddling that I thought would never end. Then he put the  bp in and I had to sleep with it. Well my anus started to really hurt around 4 in the morning and I asked him if I could please take it out. He said yes go take it out, clean it and then right back to bed you come, I said yes, Sir and did what I was told.

Saturday I had called a friend of mine to see how she was doing, Sir said that I was meddling in other people’s affairs and that he does not like anyone sticking their noses where they do not belong. I had two punishments for this, I have lost my phone for two days and I was spanked with all of his force with every implement that we have. Needless to say I am sitting on a sore bottom today. I hope the rest of the month is not going to go this way.

Love and Blessings,

HisCSW

 

Getting Up Late/ New Rules

So dh has decided that our rule about bed time and get up on time is back!

My bed time is 10:00p. If I am late going to bed I may have to go to bed early the next night.

My get up time is at 6:00a. This is so I can do some chores, spend time with my husband before we have to be at work, make breakfast for us and talk to you ladies.If I am late getting up it is one swat for each minute that I am late getting out of bed, and I may even have to get up early the next morning.

When I get home from work unless all of my housework is done, I will not be aloud on the computer, watch TV or any other fun things I like to do. 

He says that he has had it with me neglecting the home and him!

Now that you know our rules that have started yesterday. I knew that I they were starting. I did go to bed on time, however yesterday morning I did not get up on time I woke up an hour and a half late. He finally woke up and found out that I was still in bed. He said if you can not get yourself motivated I will help your bottom out of bed.(Mind you my bottom was bare, I usually only ware t-shirts that go to my waste in bed) Smack, get up, Smack, Smack I said get up, really hard SMACK SMACK last time and I will get the paddle! Do not make me get out of this bed. I got up and started getting dressed for work. He said come here. I knew I was going to get it just by the sound and tone of his voice he said bring the hair brush. I did what I was told. I went over his knee pants came down he warmed up my bottom and then gave me 30 with the brush. He says that I have 60 coming with the paddle to night. He has not said if I have to get up earlier tomorrow!

Have a great day!

Trouble for Who?!

I have not been in trouble again for 5 days! That includes today!!! He is so happy again with me and I am with myself! 

I did have a couple of warnings but nothing major! 

I will keep you all updated!

Blessings,

HisCSW

Punished After Arguement!

This morning Dear Sir and I changed the sheets on our bed. We had gotten it all put back together and I wanted to put a blanket on the bed so that if I wanted to take a nap in the afternoon I could cover up with it instead of unmaking the bed and getting it all messed up.

Well I wanted to fold the blanket so that I could just pull it up and be done with it. He had no idea how I wanted it folded and I starting getting angry I showed him three times how I wanted to fold it and we still could not get it right. Now mind you that I was trying to help so that it would work for me. I said you’re not doing it right and then the argument started. The next thing I know over the bed I went, butt in the air and very, very hard spanks with his hand were coming down on my bottom. When I thought that he was done, OH NO down go my pants, he landed about 30 with his hand on my bare bottom. OUCH I cried, I am sorry! He said this will teach you not to argue with me and you will have to write 50 lines that say “I will not argue with Dear Sir over anything.” 

This is the first time that I have argued with him since we started using DD. I will not do that again at least for another 10 months. I believe that is the reason that he did not use an implement and only gave me 50 lines instead of 150.

 

 

 

 

Back Talking and Using BIG NO,NO Words

It started last night I have been back talking, being disrespectful, and using words that are not to be used in this house. Anyway Dear Sir finally had enough of it last night, he grabbed the flyswater and went to town on my bottom. I slapped him wrong thing to do, he just spanked harder and harder and I turned and looked at him and said something that I totally regret and do not ever want to say again I am not sure where it even came from. But he told me if I ever say any of the four letter words again that he would spank me and wash my mouth out. I really do not want that to happen!

I am sorry that I was giving him such a hard way to go. I know better than to talk back and to use bad words in our home. But I turned around and did the same thing this morning, without the bad words. This time he took a spatula to my bottom I cried it hurt so bad. I was still hurting from last night I really did not need any more this morning.

Needless to say I have been very good the rest of the day. I have not even had an attitude!

Okay, that all I have for now.

Happy blogging

His CSW

Different Kind of Punishment

I was very disrespectful to Dear Sir yesterday morning. I was upset that the dishes were not put back in the right way. When I went to get something out of the cupboard everything came at me. I was so upset and frustrated with the dishes and the person that put them away or got something and then did not put it away properly. I did forget who I was talking to for a minute, does this ever happen to any of you? Well, he did get on the person that did make the mess in the first place, but then he talked with me this morning and he told me that even though he could understand why I was upset it was no excuse for the disrespect that I had towards him. I do agree that I should have watched my tongue and that I should know who I am talking to at all times, I also agree that I should not have been disrespectful.

Well the punishment that I received was I had to write 5 scriptures that had to do with our relationship and disrespect. Then I had to right out each one of them 5 times each. He had to approve each scripture that was chosen. It is due tomorrow at 10:00p. Well I got it all done today. Here are the scriptures that I looked up. (Just incase your curious)

1. Esther 1:20 – And when the King’s decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire (for it is great) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both great and small.

2. Esther 1:22 – For he sent letters into all the King’s province according to the writing there of and to every people after their language, that every man should bear rule in his own house, and that it should be published according to the language of every people.

3. Job 2:9-10 – Then said his wife unto him, Dost thou still retain thine integrity? Curse God, and die. But he said unto her, Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil? In all this did not Job sin with his lips.

4. 1 Corinthians 11:3 – But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of Christ is God.

5. Titus 3-5 – The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things. That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

He would usually would give me lines about disrespect but he decided to give me scripture. I think that I learn more from the scripture then I do from lines but I do not like to write things in a repeptive order.

Not Myself

After being good for those 7 days and receiving a reward from Sir, I have just not been myself. I have had lots of little snippy attitudes (his words). He really spanked me yesterday with his hand and the paddle. I am not sure how many that I received but there were many of them that came, I also received corner time on my knees. He said that the next time that he has to punish for this behavior he would not be so easy on me. I did not think that it was that he was that easy on me. I did figure out part of the problem, it could be that this is the third time this month that I am on that time of month.

I am trying to do better. Usually on days that he has to work I can stay out of trouble more than I can when he is here. If I do something that I know is outside of our boundaries then I will tell him and just wait on the punishment that I have earned. Some people ask me how I can tell him when he was not with me to see or hear me do it and that is because that little voice that lets you know you did something wrong gets the better of me and I have to tell him. I do not like living with guilt, but I do not like it when someone says that I did something wrong when I did not do anything wrong. Dear Sir is good about listening to all sides before he makes a decision on if I should be punished or not. 

I am glad that DS is my husband and leader, he is mine. He is fair, kind, and strict when needed. He listens to what I have to say and then acts on it depending on if any action is needed. I have found that communication is one of most important things that a couple can do in a dd relationship and any relationship as far as that goes. Yes, there are the rules, boundaries, and the punishments. But under that there is a couple that has open communication that means, that one person really does listen and understand while the other is talking. There is a deep love, appreciation, and respect for one another that unless you are in a dd relationship you honestly can not began to understand. I am not abused or unloved quite the opposite, I am loved, very loved, cherished, protected, and respected! He loves me much more than words can ever explain. I now feel more loved and protected than I ever have by anyone. I just wish that more people would understand that and live like people did back in the 50’s. 

That is all that I have for now!

Happy blogging,

His CSW